Thanks for the feed back everybody. It seems like she has come to her senses. I just worry for how long.

I had another friend set me straight this evening. If you love her don't be a sh$# again, was essentially what she told me.

I'm also having trouble because of some comprimises she wants me to make. I'm not willing to leave the life and friends I have just made because those things built me up, and they were healthy and good.

We'll see, wish me patience and luck.

Thank you.

Oh and by the way. When all hope is lost. There's a lot to be said for simply letting go, completely detaching, getting well, being really ready do move on, then letting them know you still care.