Thank you so much. The trouble here is that I don't know if I can really honestly ever trust her again.
So much of me is done. I've been hurt so much. She's trying to make this work. She's trying very hard.
But how do I determine if she is emotionaly mature and stable now? She's got a problem and I don't want to be a part of this cycle anymore.
If I knew she could do it this would be a different story. But I don't know if she can. This more than an affair, this is complete emotional chaos that has lead her to act out in ways that to me are devastating.
