Ok, I'm feeling the need to "talk" again to my H. I want reassurance from him that he is 100% committed to our M, not just by his actions but his words as well.
A couple of days ago SirenTears wrote this to me:
Quote: Before you talk to your H there is a really good book by Michelle. It is called "How to Get Through to the Man You Love" or "A Woman's Guide to Changing Her Man" (different titles same book). Men don't do well with the "talk".
I just read the first chapter here and think I will hold off talking until after I get my hands on this book.
I sometimes feel like I am spinning my wheels. I know he is "trying" but I want more. Why is that? I need to get over the A, forgive him and start trusting him again. I think this will help in our R. I think that maybe subconsciously I may be forcing H to relive his guilt over and over. I don't want to be doing that, I want to move past it and improve our life together.
