Ok, so I guess a man can go that long. I personally know that a woman can too...
Today kids and I spent the day at my brother's new place with my parents. I tried to call H once around 5:30 - no answer. We stayed until 8:00. Got home around 8:10. H was not home. Needless to say I was starting to feel very angry. H came home at 8:30. Apologized for being so late and not calling. Said he worked late then wemt out for a couple of beers. He said he lost his cell phone, thinks he left it in the Uhaul yesterday.
He was asking tons of questions about my day and was talking my ear off. While I was making him something to eat he says, "come here" and gives me the longest tightest hug ever, massaging my back and everything. I ask "what is this for" and he says just because. I'm starting to feel things differently. I know longer "feel" the OW in the picture. I think H is really trying, he is trying to rekindle feelings for me that he once had. I really think DB'ing is working. You have to realize that as devasted that you are, it is not just about you. You MUST consider how your spouse may be feeling. Just my 2 cents for today.
