This afternoon we moved my B and his family into their new house. My H acted like my "old H". I really think that things will eventually work out with us. I hope so anyway.
Like I said before, IF he is still involved with OW it is because he does not know how to break it off with her without hurting her, because he is a sensitive and caring man. I'm ok with that.
I will continue to eradicate those traits of my parents that I feel that I have - goodbye smothering mother, goodbye bossy, no-it-all dad....
That being said, overall today was a good day. We both loved my brother's new house. Both of us were a little jealous of him actually because when H and I met, I already had a house and he moved in. Then when our family outgrew the house my dad offered us his house (for very little money) and we took it. We both said we wished we could have looked for and purchased a house together, that we both loved.....
Anyway, my attitude is much better these past few days, so that is a good thing!!!