Still getting some harrassment from the OW and just trying to work on my marriage.
****With my parents being here I really see myself in both of them and there are a lot of traits that we share that annoy and irritate me. Now if I feel this way, my H probably does too. These are things that I can try to improve in myself, for myself.
That is very insightful. Worst case scenario it sounds like you are on your path to being a better person and a better mother.