Mamabear,
Before you talk to your H there is a really good book by Michelle. It is called "How to Get Through to the Man You Love" or "A Woman's Guide to Changing Her Man" (different titles same book). Men don't do well with the "talk".


Just some food for thought.
ST


At the bar the Judge will not look us over for medals, degrees, or diplomas, but for scars. - Hugh B. Brown