Thanks LIN,
I know you not telling me what to do, just giving me your opinoins.

This is what I am considering; he has to go get fingerprinted tonight for his job. Since my parents will be here I am thinking of calling him and asking him if I could come with him and then maybe we could go somplace to talk afterwards. I would like to say something like "I think we should take some time to talk about our future."

Any suggestions?