Sadly, I don't think there's anything you can accomplish with an R talk. It won't help, and it just comes across as pursuing.

I'm sorry that you're down, Mama. I don't know what to say except we all know that this will end eventually, one way or the other. Hang in there.

The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)