Mama'a still rockin....

[RBinBR]

I think the reason he doesn't want to be with me is because he is with "her". He is a one woman man, always has been. (At least he has that much going for him) I think he will feel like he is cheating on HER if he is with me. I know it may sound crazy but that is how I feel

Well, my W has said as much, even saying that she felt guilty for "cheating" on OM when she was romantic with me.

So I don't think it's crazy at all.