Jokerman, just read runningoutoftime's link you posted here. GREAT stuff. Really opened my eyes this morning (that and the coffee).
Ok, looks like last night I was having a little pity party for myself. That's ok. Now I am back to being strong again. Not only for myself, but especially for my kids!!! In running's post it was interesting that she said "kids don't know we are in a "loveless" marriage, until they are well into adulthood" My kids are still small, so as far as they are concerned Daddy & I love eachother and will continue to provide stability and security for them.