My H was often disatisfied with the frequency of our sex life. I did point out that if he was away from home 4 nights a week, working late another night and we looked after his D8 2 weekends a month, there wasn't a whole lot of 'us' time left.
To be honest though, now I just wish I'd validated his fears, rather than trying to persuade him things would be ok.
You cannot teach a man anything; you can only help him discover it in himself. Galileo Galilei
