Not much to post. Yesterday I ended up going back to the pool with the kids around 3:00 (my intuition told me H was not going to come straight home from work so why wait for him). Because it had rained earlier in the day we were 4 of about 20 people at the pool. It was fantastic, kids had the whole place to themselves. H ended up calling my cell around 5:30 said he stopped for a couple of beers. (I knew that didn't I).
When we got home he was already here. Kids went on and on about how cool it was to have the pool so empty. Seemed like he regreted not coming home and going with us. Promised he would come home early today and we could all do something fun together (I won't hold my breath).
Other than that night went as well as any other night. My heart tells me that he is trying, but my gut tells me that he is stilled involved, on some level, with the OW. Since they work together I think it will be very difficult for him to cut ties with her. Like I said before, my kids are happy therefore I will not pursue a D at this time. Will see where this goes.
