****How do I make things exciting? Any suggestions for excitment on a shoestring budget with very little babysitting resources.
That's the big question. Others can probably help you out with this better than me. Plus what is exciting for one person may not be for another.
One thing about affairs is that they are exciting. Once you have decided to or begin breaking it off, you miss that excitment. That is why I got so depressed when my w said she wanted things the way they were. Hearing that made me miss the exciting times with the OW.
Hopefully my w and I will get to the point where we can work to keep the excitment in our M. Even if you cannot execute any of these exciting things now, it is fun to talk about with your spouse. It will give him hope.
