Thanks Lin, Great ideas. Don't know if you have been following me long but I recently traded in my minivan for a mustang convertable - sitting in the parked car sounds like a great idea - drinks, snacks and music are all things that we both enjoy, not to mention the fact that he REALLY likes the car.
We do have a fireplace, an outdoor one too, although the past few days the temp has been 100+ so we may have to hold off on that for a while.
I'll have to think about the erotic story, although that would be VERY 180 for me.
As far as a bedroom lock, we definitely need one, ours is broken. Last night I woke up to find S4, D10, 1 golden retriever and 1 cat in the bed with us. I was on the far right edge and H was on the other. Very romantic, huh?