Quote: I would give anything for my wife and I to go somewhere...a little hole-in-the-wall bar, a place on the lake, whatever... and just have a heart to heart talk. Talk about everything. Talk about what we like, what we don't, what we can improve on, what our future holds.
I would give anything for this. Unfortunately, my H has a hard time talking about his feelings with me. Although he loves me he has lost the "in love" feeling and doesn't want to hurt me by telling me this. He also is no longer attracted to me, probably because of the lingering attraction to the OW. (FYI, because of all of this I actually look better than ever, lost 25 lbs. and now wear a size 2. I'm tan and I try to work out as much as I can. As a matter of fact my D9 has started borrowing some of my tanks and shorts)
Quote: Make him EXCITED about his life and the future with you and your family. He is in limbo too.
Ok, this is where I am going to have to get really creative. Sometimes life is so predictable, you do the same thing day in and day out. This is where I need some help. How do I make things exciting? Any suggestions for excitment on a shoestring budget with very little babysitting resources.
