MB, I have to remind you that at least your H is telling you ILY, even if it's only in writing. There is something significant in that. I don't have an H who will say that anymore (in any form), and I miss it so much, even though we're Piecing. sigh.
Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Is 43:18-19
If it seems slow in coming, wait. It's on its way. It will come right on time. Hab 2:3