I know, I know. Overanalyzing is one of my problems.
I cannot control what he does when he is not here, so why even worry about it. Even if he was with OW, it wasn't for very long and he came home to us and we all had a great evening. This is the note he left for me this morning:
"Good Morning Honey, Thank you for such a great birthday. Everything was set up so nice. I love my gifts and the food was very good. I Love You."

So, I am going to choose to ignore my overanalyzing brain and turn on my PMA and have another great day!!