My wife keeps making excuses not to discuss our relationship or breaking promises of when we will work on it. She has had a history of not being able to handle major issues in her life. She doesn't want any of her friends or family to be talked to as she doesn't want them to know about our troubles. The counselor stated that she has a mild case of borderline personality disorded, but she is in denial. I know I have problems, but I am getting counseling for my issues. She has quit wearing her wedding ring long ago, but I have still worn mine. I took my ring off to carve pumpkins and forgot to put it back on (I have ADD---LOL) and she got all worried and thought I was going to run off and find someone else, even though I was the one who has been keeping the marriage together for the past 15 months. What gives?
