You get some great advice from a seasoned vet in JustMe so I don't know what more to add - other than to share an experience.
Trust me as I work on piecing, the physical stuff has been hard to cross. For me there is a trust thing the WAW is working through.
That said, we ML's a couple times over the separation - in large part because of my GAL activities - specfically getting back in shape, working out, changing the wardrobe, etc. What WAW saw was the the way I was when we were first together - it had the attraction thing going again.
JustMe's advice to create a thread in Newcomers is good too - there is a lot of activity and a lot of advice that you could get there from veterans and newbie's as well.
Only you can know when enough is enough, but by being here you clearly have chosen a higher path. Good luck.
Sven
Never sacrifice the great for the good. Sometimes the beauty of grace is that it makes life not fair.
