I hope that works. Well, the wife and I have been going to counseling (together) and to the same therapist seperately. She has had her ups and downs, from threatening suicide, extortion (send me to college or I'm leaving you and the kids) and now has thrown herself into massage therapy classes so she can make sure that she can be independent. I have been supportive to her, and had adjusted my career and life accordingly. I have joined a men's group and have been doing what I can to make myself a better person. The wife and I have spent some quality time together, but she can't seem to forgive/forget, or even move on. She told me that she is celibate, and that she may never touch me again. I have been able to handle the loneliness off and on, but I really miss her, and the nurturing that she can provide. Any suggestions?
