Maybe it would be a good marital therapy technique to just pretend like you were on hidden camera but instead of trying to prove what a jerk your spouse was your mission was to prove what a great spouse you are. The extent to which your spouse thought you were going mental because your behavior was odd would be a good indication of what a lousy spouse you usually are.

In some ways I think public exposure of bad marital behavior would be a good thing. For instance I think fewer spouses would be sexually rejecting if they knew that their spouse could call a 1-800 number and a big van with "MERCY SEX VOLUNTEERS OF AMERICA" would be parked outside their house 15 minutes later.

"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver