Quote: I'm dedicated to persisting on this path. Hopefully it's not too late and I'm not committing to misery.
I know you really didn't mean for it to, but this kinda goes in line with what I posted about the things we are now trying to change that used to be truly "ok". The point is that you don't HAVE to be miserable or upset over certain parts of your W's behavior just because we say you should be, or some book does. Don't fall into the trap of believing that her "messed up" actions are ALL bad just because they don't fit with how we are now led to believe our spouses should act. Some of it just may be her personality, which, thinking back, actually made you fall in love with her in the first place.