Muddle, As I said, if you believe taking the hardline is going to help your sitch, then do so. Only you can really know, not us! Again, my feeling is not to but honestly what do i know? I love the turning down the covers on her bed cuz I do that every time she's out and comes home late. It's my way of saying "you are still welcome in our bed". A small thing but those small things can be powerful. Keep us posted.
