you're living my life now Muddle! You are supposed to know how they are feeling at all times, it's called mindreading. You paid her a compliment and now she wants to know why there isn't more. Of course, it makes no sense for you to notice how great she feels while she's crapping all over you, but logic is a thing of the past, I think. Hey, maybe crapping on you is what makes her so happy! You've now found that missing ingredient to a happy R together