Reread page 216 in DR. Think that may give you some direction on finding things that might get noticed.

One other thing, how do you know that what she is telling you is for you and not meant to convince herself? I guess what I'm saying is maybe she is seeing some changes and just doesn't want to acknowledge them. So, instead of admitting that, she keeps spouting off lies to keep herself convinced that she is right.

There is no way to tell for sure except to watch and wait for her to slip. For her to make a slip of the tongue or do something that goes contrary to what she says.


"Our life is what our thoughts make it." Marcus Aurelius