Well said. I'm realizing that today I'm starting to allow myself to be motivated by fear again. I have been able to motivate myself from love in the past and it's where I want all of my motivation to come from. I guess I have done it to myself and I've been running with it. I have been standing up for what I believe in and want and know is the "right" thing. I guess I'm doubting myself because things are a little uncomfortable now.
You're absolutely right that I have no idea whether any action on my part would change how she acts. If she's pissed about the situation while we're apart she might not hold back. I'm internalizing her anxiety and need for quick resolution. Detach, detach, detach.
Thanks for helping me stand up again and regain some clarity.
“No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it. ” – Albert Einstein
