So W just called and said "we need to talk." She's really in a bad place because she wants out, but she doesn't want the consequences of that - she doesn't want to lose our S, she doesn't want me to have to pay child support, we can't afford a divorce, it's going to be really difficult for S4, etc. She said that I wanted to make things work, but she told me that she didn't know how we could do this while she was in love with someone else. I guess I'm going to have to have a conversation with her about all of this, but there's nothing I can say that will really help her. She's really on her own here. She doesn't want to continue living this life, and I'd like to change it too, but she just wants to run. I understand where she's coming from, and I know I just need to give her time. I will do my best to be compassionate, but to be clear about my perspective and intentions. I'm not sure what we can or will agree on, but I will do my best not to contribute to an all out argument. This sitch is so messed up, for everyone, but at the moment, her.
“No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it. ” – Albert Einstein
