Hey thanks Mama. I "know" this too, but in an effort to really live my belief that there's no right or wrong in a R, I feel compelled to try to look for some utility in this. I mean, I know I can't take things at face value and base my opinion of myself on, and I'm well aware of the manipulative intent on the part of my W in saying these things, but I can't help thinking about how much of an obstacle to recovery this is. I know this is in large part my desire to fix her and do her work for her.
“No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it. ” – Albert Einstein
