Quote: She told me yesterday that she REALLY didn't like the person that I became when this was all going on. She thought I became very mean. I was amazed to hear this, because I was determined to act kindly towards her, and I know that I did. I didn't argue, even though she raged at me. I don't know if this is projection, or if she was painting me as the bad guy again so it wouldn't make her feel like such a horrible person to go take this trip. /
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You know she is full of BS. My H did the same thing to me ago couple of weeks ago. He went crazy yelling at me (something he never does) telling me what a F'ing B I am, blah, blah....I know for a fact that I am not. I think he was projecting his anger at himself onto me. He cannot believe what a mess he has made of his life and cannot take responsibility for the pain he has caused so many. In his head he made me out to be the bad guy, therefore making himself feel better.
