Update:

Thursdays night out went well. No R talk as agreed. We were both tired so there wasn't a lot of gut splitting laughter. It was relaxing and peacful though.

Friday was a surprise. There was a family event taking place and we had discussed it earlier in the week about whether I should come or not, she had said she didn't want me to. However, shortly after I got home from work on friday she called and told me she wanted me to come . This also gave me a chance to interact a little with SD13. At first it was uncomfortable with her, but she and I loosened up a little as the evening went on. It was a very good time. I'm wondering how well DB'ing will work on a 13 yo girl? LOL. I'm gonna try.

Sunday was the most interesting day. Another surprise happening. As I have stated before, my W is diabetic. W and SD13 went to mall saturday to shop for school clothes. During the day my W blood sugar went up because of a insulin pump malfunction. This continued to a point by saturday night she was getting delierious. She had told me she was going to call me before she went to bed and the call never came. Things being the way they have been, and the fact she has done this many times before, I just got a little angry and figure she was playing another game, so I went on to bed and didn't worry about it.

The next morning she called me early to explain why she didn't call and what was going on. She had managed to get her sugar level back down from 500 to around 300, but still felt bad. After she explained what happen, of coarse I felt bad about being mad. She said she was still going to go to church and some other things the family had planned for the day. I just said OK and I hope you feel better.

While I was sitting in church, I sent her a txt message telling her about an event that is still going on we want to go to. She txt me back and told me she was sick. I asked her if she was still at home. She told me she was and that her mom and sister were there. OK, now I was worried cause she NEVER calls her mom unless it is bad. I txt her back and told her after church was over I was coming up there whether she liked it or not. She didn't argue and just say 'K'.

After getting up there I gladly waited on her hand on foot and we kept working on her sugar levels until we got them back down to a pretty good level, taking blood sugar tests every 20 minutes or so. She was starting to feel a lot better and asked me to get her a popscicle. I leaned in and gave her a kiss on the cheak before going to get it and when I did, she grabbed me and pulled me into the bed kissing and kissing and kissing me! I was like whoa! your feeling better! you can guess what happened next . When I looked into her eyes, there were little tears rolling down. She said she missed me so much and thanked me for taking care of her.

Is this romance novel material? I think so! LOL

The rest of the day was wonderful. I spent the rest of the day and evening with her and her family. More good connection with SD13, although still have work to do there. When I left last night she walked me to the car. We were both kinda giddy. I said it was like we were dating again and she laighed and said, 'Yea, it is, but we have a license to have sex, LOL'

I don't want to jinks anything, but I would say we are finally on a road to recovery! When I got home, the first thing I did was get on my knees and thank God for everything he has done to help me and repair my R with my W.

AMEN!!!

Learn to laugh at it. People are people and everyone is human. Choose how you will act and don't re-act.