OP quit the Job yesterday, so he is gone and out of the picture. My W says she has cut all contact with him. She thought she was going to get the boot but right now things in that area may have changed. She is still looking for another job though, we both agree she needs to leave that place.
Now we are finally having the relationship talks and working on us. Sure wish we could have been doing this months agao, but I guess thats the way it goes. We have been discussing the future, where we will live, etc, which is very good because we have not discussed anything like that over the last 4.5 months. Other stuff has included the problems. It has been heated a few times, but not bad. Very draining though. Just keep the prayers flowing.
We see each other tonight again, for dinner and a walk in the park. We have been having R talks through e-mail all day and both whipped by that. We have agreed to set limits on when we talk about that stuff and when we don't. This is good. Tonight we are just going to have fun and enjoy each others company.
I will say, I'm still a little cautious, but she really does seem to be on board this time. Hope so, dont' wanna start over with the detachment.
Learn to laugh at it. People are people and everyone is human. Choose how you will act and don't re-act.
