Thanks Cat, just nice to know you guys are there. Found out she is sick today, probably a Kidney infection, which is dangerous for her since she is Type 1 diabetic. I gave her a friendly call to check on her. Just acted like a close friend, concerned but not worried and told her I would call her later to check on her and she said OK like it made her feel a little better.
We exchanged I love you's and hung up.
The other side of me of course wants to drive up there and wait on her hand and foot! Grrrrrr.
Learn to laugh at it. People are people and everyone is human. Choose how you will act and don't re-act.