Well she called me this morning just to catch up, tell me about taking our SD13 to freshman orientation and tell me she had a doctors opointment (she is diabetic).

She told me SD13 was going to be playing volly ball this year and said it would be nice if I came to some of her games. They will be starting the end of this month. I am unsure yet how to handle that. Another part of our break up has been my relationship with her daughter, not that it was a bad relationship, just more that it was very little relationship at all. This stemmed from my feeling I didn't want to come between them and their Dad. Another misguided mistake. Anyway, the conversation was fine, I stayed up beat and wished her luck on her day. She is still hoping to get this other job. I hoping getting the new job will help end the A. Guess time will tell.

Learn to laugh at it. People are people and everyone is human. Choose how you will act and don't re-act.