Continue to give her space.

Detach yourself emotionally from her.

Focus on improving yourself.

Focus on the positives... you are going to counseling... she seems willing to work on your marriage... many others cannot say the same thing.

It takes time but you must focus on your "NOW" take each moment as it comes and stop focusing on tommorow and what might be...


I am right back to this position myself after over a year and a half DBing...

So I KNOW how easy it is to say these things and yet how hard it is to do them...

But once you start making yourself it become easier and things will get better.

ROK