Hi Positive Listening,

That is such a great name. I appreciate your words of wisdom. I spoke to a councelor today and she said to be patient. I'm an
illustrator so I think I can do that. The hard part is knowing that
he is dating and having an affair and why should I wait to have fun.
I'm also worried about the lack of contact. How can you keep the spark alive if you don't see him? Here's the good news. I'm planning a trip to see some of my old high school girlfriends. It took
this change of life to get me there. I know it going to be fun. I should have done it a long time ago. How long has your H's part
time affair been going on?