I finally figured out how to post. Yeah! My husband is having a weekend affair. The ow works at night and he works during the day. We have seperated and sold our house and split our funds. We are both living in apartments. He has agreed to pay my rent, but hasn't given me any d papers. We said we would wait a year because we both had to sign a year lease. This separation and sale of our house and move has happened in the last three months, but the affair started in January. How long do you think a weekend affair can last? Since the house was sold, (we were going to remodel and he couldn't handle it) Since the sale of the house he helped me move and we have been getting together for dinner and having fun, but there has always been a reason to get together, escrow, moving, etc and always during the week. We have no children and No reason to see each other. Should I back off completely? I'm worried no contact and the feelings will die? But on the other hand if I'm available that's no good either. I have used the db methods to be his friend but that's all he sees me as now. Any thoughts? Oh also the last time we go together was for his birthday. I wasn't going to get him anything, but he came over for dinner and it was the best time yet. I really think he's having a MLC, got really emotional . Anyway any thoughts?
