I just wanted to add that when the mail came today I about passed out.
I got a HUGE orange folder type envelope . . . I thought my H had actually filed for the D and never told me (more lies . . what should I be surprised?) . . . BUT . . .
WHEW . . . It was just a bunch of book things for 0 month - 1 year from the department of public welfare because I just had the baby. When I saw the mail guy put it in my box though . . . OH GOD . . . it took me awhile to work up the nerve to go out and actually get the mail. A LONG WHILE! I feel silly now. I mean if I get the papers there's nothing I can do about it. I should still have the right to make him wait the 2 years for the irrevicable breakdown no fault divorce. THANKS FOR THAT AMY!!!!!!
I am just dreading knowing that he is THAT serious about it all. YIKES! Will the rollercoaster NEVER end????