I just wanted to add that when the mail came today I about passed out.

I got a HUGE orange folder type envelope . . . I thought my H had actually filed for the D and never told me (more lies . . what should I be surprised?) . . . BUT . . .

WHEW . . .
It was just a bunch of book things for 0 month - 1 year from the department of public welfare because I just had the baby.
When I saw the mail guy put it in my box though . . . OH GOD . . . it took me awhile to work up the nerve to go out and actually get the mail.
A LONG WHILE!
I feel silly now.
I mean if I get the papers there's nothing I can do about it.
I should still have the right to make him wait the 2 years for the irrevicable breakdown no fault divorce.
THANKS FOR THAT AMY!!!!!!

I am just dreading knowing that he is THAT serious about it all.
YIKES!
Will the rollercoaster NEVER end????