I just had a thought.
Supposedly (according to her that is) she has some "rich" uncle who is going to help my H pay for the divorce and the lawyers and such.
Then when that uncle dies she get ALL his money (don't ask me why). . . so he's marrying a "rich" girl.
No wonder he doesn't want to stay with me. . . there's no promise of anything in my future . . especially NOT money.