Ok guys . . . I've come to a decision. Please tell me if you think I am wrong in this.
As long as he is paying all her bills and contributing NOTHING to my daughters he has "terminated his parental rights". So until he buys a diaper or juice or SOMETHING. To help me with the girls. . . he will not see them. Maybe that's wrong. But I don't see why I should allow him to walk in and out on them when he is not willing to live up to the responsibility.
I expect harsh responses here . . I am not keeping them from him . . .merely trying to draw a clear line! What do you think?