Ok guys . . . I've come to a decision.
Please tell me if you think I am wrong in this.

As long as he is paying all her bills and contributing NOTHING to my daughters he has "terminated his parental rights".
So until he buys a diaper or juice or SOMETHING.
To help me with the girls. . . he will not see them.
Maybe that's wrong.
But I don't see why I should allow him to walk in and out on them when he is not willing to live up to the responsibility.

I expect harsh responses here . .
I am not keeping them from him . . .merely trying to draw a clear line!
What do you think?