Quote: If we just didn't work that would be one thing . . . but for him to be engaged. It hurts.
Any advice on how to come to terms with that?
Time. That is what will help that. You COULD take some comfort in the fact that he's just a VERY messed up man that has hooked up with an even more messed up woman. Time will soon reveal all things. But YOU must take care of yourself and your girls right now.