Quote: He just dumped it all out . . . it broke my heart and I kept asking him to stop and he'd just get mad and bitch that I always tell him he can talk to me and then when he tries I won't listen
Hmm, let me see if I understand this....
He has broken every marriage vow he has ever made to you. He knows you love him and want to work on the relationship.
But he can't understand how you aren't able to listen to him go on and on about the person he chose to violate your marriage vows with? And since you ask him not to go on about it, he decides it's YOU who are being mean.
He's not 6 years old right? He's in his twenties? Are you sure about that?
Emily, you are definatly not the right girl for him. Nope. Uh Uh.
He needs a girl with:
No self esteem. No self respect. A girl who is entirely selfish no matter who gets hurt. A girl who will cater to him no matter how stupid he gets. A girl who will leave him as soon as she gets tired of his crap, not stick around and try to fix it.
Sorry Emily, you're not that girl. You seem to have honor and integrity, which is not in his list of requirements for a woman.
I guess you'll have to either wait till he develops some integrity someday or until you meet someone who already has it.
I'm so happy to see you standing taller now. I believe you are going to be all right.
