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I know you needed to know about the car, but do you really think in the end he will be happy? He WILL have to pay you child support until your babies are 18. He will not be happy. What he doesn't understand is that at some point - once a cheater always a cheater. He cheat on you, he will cheat on her too. She got involved with a M man already, what's to stop her from doing it again? You know he did such a good job on his first M - why not do it again right away? You are smart enough to see that this is garbage and your H has lost it. You don't want him in your life right now! The cycle is endless and they will never see it. That is why detaching from that is the best you can do.



I know it!
This is the second married man she's been with.
She was with a guy that was married when we moved their in October.
She dated my H's younger brother for awhile and cheated on him with some other guy.

I guess my cheater H is going to have a cheater wife.
His little bro told me that she has been sleeping with other men the whole time they've been together.
I don't know.
My H will probably end up with a broken heart.
Or maybe they are just really each others "soul mates" and they'll just be that happy.

OK Santhony . .
The list of things I've always wanted to do is short.
I can only think of 1 thing that has never changed.
I've always wanted to work with animals (breeder/vet something/anything).
I've always wanted to breed reptiles and own a small pet store (or even online breeding service).

I've come up with a small list of things I want to do before I die such as: (these are silly little goals)

Own at least 2 houses (not at the same time . . I want to move at least once)
Pimp out a car at least once (I am into cars. I'm talking body kit/paint job/exhaust system/ engine work the whole nine yards)
Own a NEW car ONCE (new being within 3 years of age)
Get a boob job (maybe I'll get gummy bears Amy)
Go to Ozzfest (hopefully when Disturbed is on tour)
See Pink in concert
Travel across the country at least once.
Own a "crotch-rocket" (obviously have a license to drive it)
Get more Ink.
(I used to say have 3 kids but that seems shot in the ass now . . . )
Own at least 2 APBT's have some puppies.
Find a job I actually enjoy and stick to it. (I enjoyed the optometry but I hated working full-time and leaving my kid sooo much. Right now part-time is really the best option for me I think.)
Right now I'd like to lose another 15-20 lbs. (I'm working on it)
Own enough land to have horse.
Take a dance class.
Do something that scares the crap outta me (sky-diving or SOMETHING)


I had a few more in my head . . . but now I've lost them . . . I'll have to get back to you on that as they come.