Wife coming but still involved with OM

[Spirit_of_Hope]

Well, today started off well. I am feeling good about myself after talking with missingwifey last night. I have plans for cutting down on the pursuit and GAL.

BUT, I just read an old email from my wife to me when we were separated last year (pre-DB) and she wanted so much to save the marriage and to love me and I thought that our marriage was doomed before I educated myself with Divorce Remedy.

Now, I want nothing more than to call my wife and tell her how much I love her. Of course, she wouldn't know why I would be doing this and would just see it as pursuit.

I miss my old wife

TT