My wife is getting angry about everything that she can. Since I have had to come back to work immediately after the movers moved us in I really haven't been able to assist too much.
Our place is pretty small and there isn't much room to maneuver with all of the boxes.
She told me today that she would leave if the place wasn't unpacked soon. Instead of saying, "I agree with you and understand why you would feel that way." I said, "Where will you go? Are you taking the kids?" I wish I could think on my feet faster. She said that she wasn't in the mood for this and hung up on me.
The day did start nicely though. She sent me a message saying that she put up a new picture of us on her myspace page. I thought that was nice. And, there isn't a picture of OM on the site. . . .WOW!!
Feeling kind of crappy now but I just have to shake it off and practice agreeing with her and validate her feelings. I am just going to keep saying to myself, "Agree and validate." Maybe that will help me remember. TT
M 34
H 34
Together 8 yrs
Married 7 yrs
Son 2 1/2
Son 2 1/2
SD 12
