Wife coming but still involved with OM

[missingwifey]

Ok I had a thought. Instead of confronting her, which I don't particularly like as an option. How about playing into it. Something like "any friend of yours is a friend of mine" and "let's go pick him up together".....some spin of that? "Since we have committed to working on this marriage I know you wouldn't want me to get the wrong impression". Get my drift? This way you are not calling her a lier and you are showing her your blind faith in what she tells you...despite you and I know better.I think the main thing is not to piss her off enough that you send her running into his arms. That would put you in my spot and I don't want to see you here in my hell...not that I couldn't use some company
Don