Man, it sure sucks when your wife doesn't want to touch you or do anything but call the OM. She is so nice to him on the phone, shows interest in what he is saying, and generally treats him the way she used to treat me.
Today I feel like I am coming to grips with the EA/PA that she had while I was in Chicago. I feel okay because I am here and she is here and OM is 1000 miles away
She still has a pretty short fuse with me. I am trying my best to fix some of the things that used to piss her off.
Well, I know that I love her and am committed to our love and marriage despite the fact that there is a lot of work and reconnecting to do not to mention her A.
I haven't made a stand about her cutting off contact with the OM yet and was going to wait until we went to MC. BUT, she said before we drove out of Denver that the OM wanted to come visit her (remember she thinks that I think they are just friends). Any ideas on how I should handle that visit if it happens??
My faith in God is really keeping me positive and I pray "the hedge of thorns" around my wife a few times a day. Google it if you don't know what it is.
We are getting ready for bed. One of the few times during the week I actually get to put my arm around my wife and be physically close to her
Thanks, TT
M 34
H 34
Together 8 yrs
Married 7 yrs
Son 2 1/2
Son 2 1/2
SD 12
