Same anniversary...weird how dates keep popping up in my life. My wife's B-day is the same as my mother's. Last week was my Dad's B-day. Turns out, it is the same as OM's..yuck!!
I'm already a wreck about the anniversary coming up. Hopefully both us will be in much better positions by then I've read DR at least 5 times...kind of a security blanket for me.
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This is a tough spot to be in. Seems like anything I do is iritating to her. But I am trying to give her space.



You got it. Back off (detach)and let her come to you. Work on you. She will notice.
Best regards,
Don


M 11 yrs (12 yr Anniv.Sept 23rd) Me 40 W 33 S 9 D 5 Bomb dropped 12/24 D/filed 1/29