Question about snooping. It is so hard for me to stop because when I think things are going better I will look for something (and usually find it). I feel that I am cheating myself if I don't know what is going on and she is not being truthful to me.
Why won't she tell me the truth?? She had me convinced that this guy was just a friend. . . . .probably because that is what I wanted to believe.
I haven't broken down even when she got pissed at me the other day for some very minor things. I mean PISSED for something very small. I asked her what was wrong and she says that I just iritate her. I have been doing nothing but be good to her, offer to help her, doing more than I ever have around the house and with the kids. I feel good when I do these things but unfortunately she is not reciprocating.
I am tempted to call the OM and ask him to cut off ties with her. Would that be stupid?
Or should I just continue to play dumb, treat her well, and hope she comes around??? I think as long as this guy is in the picture she will not be able to focus on us. She will not cut off ties by herself. . . .she told me so.
I feel that the only thing that I have going for me is that she is now in Chicago with me. But she talks to this guy like 3-5 times a day.
HEEELLLLPPPP MEEEEEEEE!! I need someone to talk me off of the ledge and tell me why I shouldn't call this guy.
Tony
M 34
H 34
Together 8 yrs
Married 7 yrs
Son 2 1/2
Son 2 1/2
SD 12
