1) She agreed to move to Chicago...2) she suggested going to MC to get some help. I say go to MC, but make sure you find a MC who believes in solution-based therapy. She will eventually have to end the A if this will work, but you have time. You've read the book, so stop begging and crying. Last but not least...when she gives up the A and decides to work on the marriage, DO NOT ever stop working. That was my mistake, and now I'm going through this whole inferno a 2nd time.
